Feminity in "The Brothers"

Recently I watched the movie "The Brothers" which is about four men who are best friends and all of them seem to be having problems with females. They are constantly complaining to each other about what their girlfriends and wives are doing. They don't ever stop to think that it could be them doing something wrong, they just keep on blaming their relationship issues on the women. My question is, is that the problem with most relationships today that the man or woman doesn't want to admit when their wrong because of their own pride?